. . . . ..This is Abraham Finny Dayasingh(06AF102). Friends call me Binnybhai. Aim in life is to become a politician. Love travelling , photography, cycling. Thank you for visiting my blog. Please leave a comment if you enjoyed.

Dear Life

Dear A ,

What does it mean when you say “Love of my life”. What if one does not end up with the ‘Love of your life’ person.

I believe in big love. I talk and act like I do. I have had that massive love. That all-consuming love. That ‘Is this real’ kind of love. The kind of love that flare up into an uncontrollable fire and burns quietly, comfortably, for years. The kind of love that teaches more than you thought you could ever learn, and gives back much more than it takes. Was this the ‘Love of the life’.

If you’re lucky, you get to meet the love of your life. You get to be with them, to learn from them, to give the whole of yourself over to them and allow their influence to change you in immeasurable measures. It’s an experience like nothing else we have on this earth. But the truth is  sometimes we meet the loves of our lives, but we do not get to keep them. We do not get to marry them, to pass our years together with them, to hold their hands till the end and after a life lived well and together. Because in the real world, love doesn’t conquer all.

Sometimes the biggest, most loving move you can possibly make is to let each other go and other times you don’t get a choice.

Some people can love you more in a year than others could love you in lifetime. These people come into our lives only for a particular period of time, but make an impact that no one else can ever quite match or replace. And who are we to call those people anything but the loves of our lives? Meeting and letting go of the love of your life doesn’t have to be your life's single greatest tragedy because some people never get to meet them at all.

The Greatest Act Of Love Is Letting Go. A person trapped in a stagnant relationship is like a wild bird put in a cage. Its natural response will be to take flight at the first opportunity, to find its freedom again. To let go because you know that both you and people in your life need the space to grow, is indeed the greatest proof of love you can give to yourself and others. How beautiful and brave a person, that can act with such grace, in the name of freedom.

A very Happy Birthday to you.May you find what you are searching for.



My problem is timing. I had this thought to write when the issue was ON but then for some reason I delayed. Anyways let me put my thought here regarding NDTV ban by the ministry of broadcasting for one day which was later put on hold due to protest from editor federation and why i support the government ban.

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Coming back to NDTV ban.

One wrong should not be covered by another wrong. For instance, When we say Modi is corrupt, immediately Modi supporter would say, so is congress. What does that justify, nothing. So when I say NDTV was wrong and they deserve punishment,  don’t justify by saying so is TIMES NOW and ZEE TV.

NDTV is one of my favorite news brand in India and I love hearing Ravish Kumar. Ravish is from Bihar and his style of Hindi is very pleasant and also he is very brave and direct. The Government served a show cause notice to NDTV’s Hindi channel for its coverage of the militant attack on the Pathankot airbase in Punjab. The notice accused NDTV India of broadcasting “strategically sensitive information”. If you see the video which is available on YouTube(link below) you can see the reporter saying the terrorist are still alive and the position of army and the militant. You simple don’t do that. A war is going on, let the army finish the job and then you telecast whatever crap you want to.

This is not the first time NDTV is doing this. During attack on Hotel Taj in Mumbai on Nov 27, 2008. NDTV was showing live of what was happening and the terrorist were able to know the positioning of the army in the hotel and carry out more attack. NDTV did not serve the national interest then. The shots and visuals could have been shown after all the terrorists were neutralized and the security operations were over. But to shot up the TRP they did it.   
Don’t cry about Right to freedom  of speech  and Expression. Yes, Right to Freedom of Speech and Expression should not be misused putting the country's social security factors in vain. But then the Government did nothing and it is very sad that finally supreme court had to direct the broadcasting ministry for action and that UPA government did not do anything on their own.

Heard about “Nira radia tape”, If not google it and see how some on the top journalist from NDTV were involved.

During Pathankot attack, information about the location and assets of the Pathankot airbase were given in bits and pieces and exact location of the remaining terrorists and the asset were also broadcasted. Unlike print, TV is an audio-visual medium, which have a far wider and instantaneous impact. Hence, the disclosure of vital information on national security-related issues on the audio-visual medium, while anti-terrorist operations are on, has several ramifications.       

My personal issue here is why only NDTV. Other channels too carried similar live telecast during Pathankot in 2016 and even during the Mumbai attack in 2008. But as I said in beginning, one’s mistake should not be justified by others mistake.

One last point, If NDTV is banned for one day then our PM should be jailed for a day for allowing the Pakistan team to investigate and giving then full access of a military air base to our enemy. And then if it was so sensitive then why allow media there in the first place.

NDTV telecast link  :


Recently I went to Punjab for a church dedication program and some friends I made there took me to the Wagah border. Bad luck struck when the BSF said it’s been locked due to some stone-throwing incident in the Wagah.

Badly wanting to see the border the guys took to Shaheed Baba Gurudwara which is 20-30 meters from the LOC at Dera Baba Nanak. These were the time post-surgical strike. I will be putting the pictures in my next blog when I post from home.

Met few of the soldiers and had conversation ranging from what they eat, when do they go home, how is the condition at the border and many other question that’s been struck in head for these years.

Some of Indian Army achievement.
We have had 4 wars with Pakistan, winning all 4. It’s not easy when China support Pakistan.
Liberation of Bangladesh, and the style of it - Winning a war in just 13 days and establishing a new nation... No other country could have done it better than India. None!
Kargil War - It may just have been a border conflict but the odds were all against Indian Army and yet they managed to regain all the lost grounds

Surgical strike. Is Indian Army capable of surgical strike?

Recently there has been news in almost all non-Indian media that we faked the surgical strike. Some of our own politician sitting in opposition has asked for proof so the outside media is quit.

Yes we are. Since we have done it in the past and so I believe that the Army has indeed done the surgical strike and destroyed the terror launch pad.

I write blog only when I have a problem. My problem is not that to do anything with the Army.

During our previous PM surgical strike has taken place and been confirm by the Army. They never took this to street, addressing the media and thumping of chest. This attacks are considered to be secret keeping the country in mind. But in current scenario our shameless PM along with Amit shah, The president of the ruling party and our defense minister who is an another jerked has talking about surgical attack like no other. The defense minister even gave credit to RSS for the tactics used. The PM has been talking about it in almost everywhere he talks.

We need a PM for whom the nation is the priority and not the political party he represents. If winning elections is the ultimate goal of the PM and he could do anything to achieve it then our country is in grave danger.

It’s high time both politicians and media shut their mouths on surgical strikes. Leave army alone and don’t put pressure on them to justify on what they have done. US has crossed continents and killed their enemies and never debated so much like we do for single adventure from our Army. BJP should stop its marketing campaign. First the communal sword and now the surgical strike. 2 years of inefficiency should not be covered using surgical strike.

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War with Pakistan?

I seriously don’t know how to start, but here is the student pledge.
India is my country. I love my country and I am proud of its rich and varied heritage. I shall always strive to be worthy of it.
To my country and my people, I pledge my devotion. In their well-being and prosperity alone, lies my happiness.

Who doesn't love India being Indian? Everyone does. Patriotism is love for own country nothing else.  Patriotism is not hate for Pakistan or any other country. The word Patriotism has taken a whole new meaning. You been called Anti-National if you voice against the government. This never happen before.
Today I am sharing just another opinion and I love my country.
First thing we need to understand is Pakistan is a failed state.  
The Power of India and Pakistan are both made up of three strong units but are called differently. In India we call them legislative, Executive and Judiciary. And in Pakistan they call it as Army, Politician and the Banned Organization (Labelled as terrorist).
In India legislative, Executive and Judiciary are three independent body and we call them as “Separation of powers”. This three don’t overlap. They report to the president and the country runs smoothly. Not the same in Pakistan. I said earlier that Pakistan is a failed state. The Army listen to ISI, the ISI listen to this banned organization, this banned organization have collaboration with other banned organization in other country. Their Army chief was their president once, and then he had to leave the country. The current PM was sentence to death and had to leave the country and came back to become PM again. It is totally messed up. India’s politic is understandable. You can follow and understand the politics of any other country but not of Pakistan. Every day they come up with some new and different thing.
The ISI(Pakistan intelligence agency) is a total failure, there has been plenty of proof of Pakistan’s Army aligned to the ISI. ISI and these banned organization are like two branch of the Pakistan extended Army.
You don’t even know who rules Pakistan. The power lies with the Army. Internationally banned organization makes decision and the politician is just statement to make speech in UN and other international bodies.
Now in the case of War, even if we defeat Pakistan what will we achieve. The terrorist will still be alive hiding the whole time. Our Sensex would fall, investor would hesitate and our Economy would crash. Our country was not build in one day. It would all fall crashing in matters of month in case of war. We have everything to lose.

Sometimes I sympathize with Pakistan. I feel they themselves are target of local terrorism. India has actually blamed Pakistan to  allow terrorist activity in their territory. The Pakistan government cannot do anything about it since they do not have any control. Will a war make Pakistan government to act on the terrorist? Will the war destroy all the terrorist organization in Pakistan?  I don’t think so.

The people care less. The freedom is suppressed unlike India. The government has no power. The Army is a puppet. They still live in the past. They are helpless. They economy is a mess.

I can't think of any solution, War with Pakistan is not the answer. The PM knows this too and so do the entire lots of elected politicians.