. . . . ..This is Abraham Finny Dayasingh(06AF102). Friends call me Binnybhai. Aim in life is to become a politician. Love travelling , photography, cycling. Thank you for visiting my blog. Please leave a comment if you enjoyed.

* Don't take the Lord's Name in vain.

In fourth year of my college I had this sudden feeling that I need to put on some weight. And I wasn't eating well cos I was not feeling hungry enough. So I decided to meet a doctor. There are two Hospital in our campus, one claims to be doing charitable work and spreading the Gospel, they have all this God's picture and various words stuck on the wall(let me call it as "Our hospital"). And other one which has no sign of God or charity mentioned anywhere on their wall or on their Welcome board (named chinmaya). So I had presumed that our hospital was better. But on this day I wanted to go to Chinmaya(Reason: class was going on, the nurse or doctor might report my register number to the college authority for roaming out when the class was on).

The way in which the chinmaya hospital doctor treated me was something that I have never experienced before with any doctor. He spoke with me for 30 min for that small problem(no hunger). He gave me some medicine and took from me a very nominal fee(From my previous experience I can say that it was a lot cheaper and better than our hospital). He asked me where I come from?, What I was doing?, what I want to become? and other question to make me feel better.

Soon after this I went to our hospital to buy a medicine that wasn't available in chinmaya hospital. The staff there started asking question after question(Rudely). There behavior towards me made me question there values. I had to escape, I bluffed her that I was an outsider and gave them back some advice which was necessary for that moment.

I am not judging the staff of our hospital. If you want to be rude, be rude, But please do take out God's word and his picture that you have stuck on the wall. Don't take His name in Vain. I see christian having word like "JESUS LOVES YOU", "JESUS IS COMING SOON", "JESUS ROCKS", ...and other God's word stuck on their car and breaking the traffic rules. If you want to break the rule, break it , but first remove out the sticker. Don't take His name in Vain. If you are labeling yourself as a follower of God then better be one.

The greatest single cause of atheism in the world today... is Christians who acknowledge Jesus with their lips and walk out the door and deny Him by their lifestyle. That is simply what an unbelieving world finds unbelievable. - dc talk

Don't take the Lord's Name in vain.


* The Umbrella Ghost.

Dedicated to a Friend(Kadam) of mine who claims to have seen ghost from childhood. Here is the answer for your question. God Bless you.

This "True incident" was told to me by my Bench-mate Dinesh P in Networking class, when Priyadarsani ma'am, our networking Teacher was lecturing on OSI layer.
In a Town near Madurai, a girl(Anitha) of age 20 was walking on the railway track at 8 pm in the Night. It was raining. A 50 years old man, her neighbor saw her and asked her why was she walking around when it was pitch dark. She said she was going toward her home. Uncle said her that he will escort her to home, but she refused to take help. So this Uncle gave Anitha his umbrella and said to to stay away from track and to go home straight.
Next day, this uncle went to Anitha's house and met her Dad. He told her about Anitha and wanted the umbrella. Anitha father was shocked. He said Anitha passed away 15 days back in an accident. So Anitha's dad and that 50 years old uncle went to the graveyard and to they were shock to see the umbrella hanging on the Cross of the graveyard.

I didn't believe this "True incident". But I had no other choice cos this story was in some way more interesting than the OSI layer taught by Priyadarsani ma'am(This is the another reason why I had to study Networking for 4 semester, the other reasons are, F.R.I.E.N.D.S TV serial, Plant and Zombie).

What is Ghost? Do They really exist?
Normally we would think that ghost is from the "soul" of a living thing. If that is the case, then the world would be full of ghosts - and certainly this does not look so. I have heard many dreadful stories on ghosts disturbing people. And recently I came across a new friend who said that he could see ghosts since he was a small boy.

Some say that people before they pass away have some unfinished business or something they wish they could change before they die. That would be a ridiculous amount of ghosts in this world. And as for our loved ones, it would be saddening to think that their after-life consists of having to watch over us.

The truth of it is everybody is made up of three parts: your body (physical, the part that executes the actions), your soul (your mind, memories, feelings, the part that makes decisions), and your spirit (the part of you that lives on after your body dies, also the part that can be in touch with the spiritual world around you). When we die our spirit is instantly taken to Heaven.

Fake Edited Picture.

What we have come to know as “ghosts” are actually Evil Spirit, The Devil. The devil makes us to believe in Ghost. The two types of spirits interacting with our world are angelic and demonic.
So, why would fallen angels pretend to be someone else?
The answer is easy; because if we believe in ghosts then we don’t believe in heaven or hell. And for those that do believe in ghosts and heaven and hell, it still completely eliminates the authority and governing of God. So If you have any experience of seeing a ghost, that not a bad thing, It is the Devil trying to Deviate you from the Truth.

As for my new friend, the fact that you see “ghosts” is not a bad thing. I know kids who can see angels. I would suggest that you learn the what and why of your ability. I hope this has helped you.

* Student scores 85%, but hangs herself.

Unhappy with her score of 85% in the recent SSLC exam, M Sunidhi, 16, allegedly committed suicide in her house. Sunidhi had often fretted that she had not scored 90%. According to her grandmother, Sunidhi was depressed as she had failed to score over 90%. "She would often tell me that she was unhappy that she could not score better. She became more disturbed when she failed to get admission in a college of her choice,”.

Source: Times Of India

While in college, every semester there was a news that someone has end his\her life. A 4th year boy called it an end after someone said him “Useless”. A junior did the same after his parents said him to stay in hostel during festival holidays.

This 'Ratta lagao Marks Pao' education system really sucks. Such pressure is always there. Nothing new, main thing is life values. We are not able to teach the Students the ways to tackle difficulties.Our Education system is deteriotaing day by day. Needs improvement.

Suicide is man's way of telling God, "You can't fire me - I quit.".

It is easy to categorize persons who commit suicide, either as cowards or psychologically affected or look towards them with sympathy. what a person thought before committing suicide, what led the person to do that, may be a lengthy debate, but still ends with "what a foolish decision it was".

Even during depression you can make it through it, without succumbing to the deepest darkest hole in your mind.


  • Ask The Almighty for help, Talk to Him.
  • Talk to Friends and family.

2.When your feeling like doing something bad. Do something else.

  • Go online and chat
  • Go for a walk
  • Go talk to your best friends
  • Always ask for help.

3.Keep one thing in mind.

  • Life is worth more than the darkness.
  • You can overcome the pain.

  • Stay as positive as you can
  • Writing down your feelings can be helpful
  • Asking for help does not make you weak
  • Even big strong men need help sometimes


  •  Death is forever, you cannot take it back.
  • The pain you cause others is greater than what your feeling right now.
  • Even the darkest days cannot be as bad as never being here.

In the Garden of Gethsemane, Jesus became grieved and distressed, saying "My soul is deeply grieved to the point of death". In Gethsemane and on the cross, he took our agony, our guilt, our depression, our fear, so that we don't have to be stuck with that garbage any more.

The Bible says that Jesus has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin (Hebrews 4:15). That means that Jesus allowed Himself to feel the awful pull to death and suicide, and then he broke its power on the Cross.

As a result you don't need to punish yourself anymore. Jesus took your punishment. You don't need to condemn yourself anymore. "Now there is no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus." (Romans 8:1). You don't need to be consumed with fear any more. "Perfect Love casts out all fear." (I John 4:18) .


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