. . . . ..This is Abraham Finny Dayasingh(06AF102). Friends call me Binnybhai. Aim in life is to become a politician. Love travelling , photography, cycling. Thank you for visiting my blog. Please leave a comment if you enjoyed.

* Trip to Neyveli and Pondicherry

It been long since I blogged,was busy with project.Submitted the first time,got rejected.Second time they screwed us badly[this is what you get for all your hard work],finally we passed.Needed a break.

Rufus's [a friend] dad works in Neyveli ,a beautiful place to north of pondicherry. The corporation campus was very well planned and beautiful.Green,proper road with very less population.

From karunya to Neyveli:
Started on 19th night from karunya. The driver was driving in such a way that others were overtaking us from both right and left on the avinashi road.We were seated in the last seat. After salem the road was so bad that for some moment I thought I was in "My Bihar".Seated at the back was cursing the driver with words. We reached by 5 am. Slept till 1 pm.Got few bike and went around Neyveli. Had King size,Home made Lunch at Rufus's.

Neyveli Lignite corporation:
evening went along with uncle to the mining spot.Was Fun seeing those big big machine of around 300 feet tall.Even got to climb on one of those.

We are standing on the Top of a 300 feet machine...

Wilson (Rufus's bro)...back is the turbine to pick the lignite.

see a person standing on the second right side wheel,just to compare the height of the machine.

In front of the Lignite cutter.

Our transportation inside the Lignite mine.

Evening came back from mine , went around the town with Arun .Went to Rufus's school,where the dog chased us out then to the church which was closed.Then to the main Bazaar,which was closed except some sweet shop.Went around in a car[Rufus reckless driving] and 4 two-wheeler.

Night walk:

Around 10:30 pm went for a walk. Arun showed us a house which was haunted [some female committed suicide]. While returning police caught us for roaming around at mid-night.He thought we were Naxalities. But finally left us.

Sunday morning:
Got up around 7,Father berkmann song from television .Went to AG church within the corporation.Nice worship.Other boys came just at the time to say "Amen".

started at 10:30 am to pondy in a mini van. Sat near the driver[my fav place in bus].Back friends watching "vetakaran".Vijay's latest movie.

Auroville : A non-religious meditation place

Pondy beach.Nice place.Got lots of sea shells.

Pondy church,some 250 years old.

Caught the SETC bus.This time it was comfortable.Morning around 6 am,the driver applied sudden brake and another bus from back hit ours.A small accident. Nice way to finish the trip.

Yercaud Trip : visit here


* Possessiveness : Bulids or Ruins a friendship?

EVERY PERSON in this world at some point of his time gets too possessive or obsessed about some thing/ person.Possessiveness is important in friendship but within a limit.

Friends have a special bond, and that bond can be tighter than others.I am going to talk here in context of friendship.

By being possessive, you are trying to take away the freedom of that other person. This creates insecurity for the partner, which ends up in misunderstandings.

Although possessiveness has all the bad traits it is a bit sweet that someone is so important to us. You get possessive on a person when you care immensely!!! It’s just a feeling. If not controlled, it may ruin or spoil the relationship...or your equation with that particular person at the least….
Possessiveness......! !! Is like a pinch of salt....!!!Either Too much Or Too less will make the taste horrible...!!Possessiveness is the binding energy of the bonding....!!Either Too much Or Too less will break the bonding...!!

You have to remember that your friend has other friends just like you do and he needs to spend time with those other friends just as you do with yours.I would suggest having a talk with friend and explaining to him how you feel. I know that sometimes that it can be uncomfortable do so, but you will feel better afterwards and there will be a an understanding of the situation between you two. Communication is key, you need communication in a friendship or any kind of relationship for that matter. Explain to him how you feel and if he is a true friend, he will understand, trust me.

A relation does not involve ownership. It requires partnership.

* Quality of life:Be positive

Many people are negative thinkers, simply because they get discouraged. They want result fast and easy. Life isn't like that.

A person needs the power of positive thinking to experience the best in life and to enjoy the spiritual dimension. You see, positive thinking is another way of talking about faith - the belief that God is always there to help direct your life, and help you find happiness and fulfillment in your work and your relationship, including marriage and family. Positive thinking is even more important today because many people are discouraged, if not down right depressed.

When your mind is full of fear, doubt,and clutter, good ideas can't get through. You get your best ideas and make your best decisions when you're relaxed, open to impressions, and responsive to them.

Also, if you want to lead the good life, you need to be a good person. Many people are confused because they see "BAD" people who have very good lives - full of comforts and conveniences. But, you see, to me that is a superficial expression of the good life. The good life is one in which you are in peace in your inner soul. When you are at peace with yourself and other, and when you have good habits of positive thinking and living, you can make each day a better day.